Girls, would you invite a guy somewhere if you didn’t plan on bringing him along in the end?
Well, there’s this girl that me and my female friend knows since we all do a parttime job together. She’s a pretty friendly and outgoing person (we can easily joke with each other and stuff). Before we leave work, we have to go to the locker rooms to change to our casual clothes. Basically I finished first (since I’m a guy) and waited for them so we can walk out of work together and then split. While the girl walked out with my female friend, she invited her to go to the mall. My friend said she could go if the girl actually asked her ahead of time (so basically my friend isn’t going and I didn’t know the girl invited her until I asked my friend later). So they meet up with me at the spot where I was waiting.
Some employees walk by so instead of us three going, my friend talks to them a bit. The girl then starts fiddling with the vending machine buttons (she didn’t insert any coins) and then asks if I wanna go to the mall with her. I would’ve said yes but I had business to do so I couldn’t go. I just stayed silent and then she got a phonecall from someone (sounded like a friend calling and I think the girl is going to the mall to buy her friend a bday gift from what my friend said later) and after the call, I asked who else was going. She then said something like, "no one is going, I was just saying nonsense". I was like, "Huh, if that’s the case, why even ask?" in my mind. I didn’t put much thought into into it anyway because I knew I couldn’t go.
I’m kind of thinking if she was messing with me (for what reason?) or if her friend called and cancelled the mall shopping stuff or not or is there something that I’m missing here. She teases me from time to time but if this was a tease, I don’t really think it’s funny considering that if I actually said yes, I wanted to go with her. Me and my friend walked her to the subway while she was talking on the phone. Did they the girly holding hands farewall while she just looked at me and smiled before leaving to the subway.
So my question is, would you actually do this to a guy friend if you never intended on bringing him along? Maybe she feels disgusted in me? lol
Would also like to know if this is considered a good, neutral or bad event that happened between us.
Thanks.
I’d never do something like that. Why on earth do you think she feels disgusted in you? You did nothing. Look, I think you are thinking to much about this to much and from what you have said (even though it is not much) she does not seem like a girl to like and WANT to go to somewhere with, let alone the mall. Why would someone ask you, then say she was talking nonsense? I can see you have a little thing for her and you are putting a little effort by being a genlteman (walk to subway). If she felt the same, I think she’d put in the same effort. Sometime girls play the hard-to-get game with guys and I honestly don’t think its cool. If you were to have a chance to go somewhere with her, I say do it. Get to know her. If you see this girl is still "teasing" you, forget it and move on because you are going to get bored. I’d say use this as a learning experience and move on. If you do that, I feel like you’re going to think what if? What if you get a chance to get to know her more? Go for it. Then weigh your options. Good luck bud!
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don’t have sex.
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…lolwut?
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You put way to much detail & need to reword. K? k. & your a gay ass shit fuck… 4 real gay though. Oh and I would do this to you if i though u were gay.
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maybe she was just embarrassed that no one would go with her and didnt wanna seem lonely so she acted lk she never was gonna go to the mall…i dont think she would have lied to YOU AND YOUR/HER FRIEND
dont worry about it too much
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I’d never do something like that. Why on earth do you think she feels disgusted in you? You did nothing. Look, I think you are thinking to much about this to much and from what you have said (even though it is not much) she does not seem like a girl to like and WANT to go to somewhere with, let alone the mall. Why would someone ask you, then say she was talking nonsense? I can see you have a little thing for her and you are putting a little effort by being a genlteman (walk to subway). If she felt the same, I think she’d put in the same effort. Sometime girls play the hard-to-get game with guys and I honestly don’t think its cool. If you were to have a chance to go somewhere with her, I say do it. Get to know her. If you see this girl is still "teasing" you, forget it and move on because you are going to get bored. I’d say use this as a learning experience and move on. If you do that, I feel like you’re going to think what if? What if you get a chance to get to know her more? Go for it. Then weigh your options. Good luck bud!
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I would never ask a guy to go some where as a joke. I’m guessing that she either thought that you were going to say "no" because you were silent, or (like you assumed) she was going to go with her friend and then her friend canceled. Maybe she thought it might be awkward or send you the wrong message if you two went to the mall alone, so she decided just not to go at all.
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