Christians what can I do? PLEASE CAREFULLY READ FACTS BASED ON LINKED QUESTION?
I am finally VINDICATED from a hateful previous job I was once at.!!!
I LOVE my current job COMPLETELY! I am treated with respect to the utmost and have MOVED ON. HOWEVER,,,
I had a WONDERFUL weekend doing my business/ministry. But during the weekend I seen someone I did NOT want to see. When I worked at my previous job. This person a (so called Christian) Mrs A. treated me HORRIBLY and gave me all the hard jobs yet I maintained my innocence. PLEASE SEE DETAILS AND THE LINK BELOW.
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Mrs A. was at one of my vending events and was asking ALL kinds of questions regarding my business. Little did I know she would call up this (mental) couple (Mrs and Mr F). me and hubby tried to help and they showed up at my church with (I believe) an intent to harass me. I have lost about 20+ lbs and intend on loosing more because I ONLY want to get healthy.
WHY in the world are they STILL so interested in me and my life after 5 years???
I cut them out of my life because I was falsely accused of something I never did.
They have NEVER SHOWED UP UNTIL THIS PAST SUNDAY.
I am NOT looking for trouble but if you know the story of Joseph
This is the story of my life.
Not only that but crazy Mrs. F was questioning one of my clients that orchestrated the WHOLE event on Saturday.
I wonder when will this end ??? I just want peace and have tried to make it however they will not leave me alone all becuase Mrs A. called them about me and told them. I KNOW she did becuase they would of never showed up at my church otherwise.
I also cut them out of my life becuase the lady was trying to catch me or frame me doing something wrong and acted evil toward me when the plan TOTALLY failed,.
Thanks M.R Fruits that was good!
Mr Fruits thankfully all Christian are not like this.
I am a Christian that tried to help those people now I moved on they obviosly have not.
Please consider that this Mrs A could be jealous and resents fact that you have moved on. They are still where you were – back then because, maybe they have not learned from it. It may appear to them that you have left the scene, unscathed, while they are still troubled with this.
People may say they are Christian, go to church every Sunday, bible study, so forth ands so on… They do however, sometimes have other agendas.
We must try to be thankful that we have a forgiving and loving heart, and we have been able to move on, by the grace of God.
Just try to be as nice as you can and keep your distance.
There will always be people who will try to cause trouble and stir the pot – as often and with as many as they ca. They are not well liked in any congregation. But, we all must deal with our share, from time to time.
I know it hurts too. But we must realise just how much ‘they’ are hurting, to torment so many others with this much grief!
Pray for them, smile and tell them you will pray for God to give them peace from their suffering. I don’t think they will bother you anymore…
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How about you stop whining and pretending you’re the victim? That gets old really fast.
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get a restraining order… just state harassment, they will get the message… don’t worry over this.. take action, I am sure they don’t think you will do this, lol… also, you need to include church as one of the places they went to harass you..
good luck, many blessings to you..
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I’d just like to point out that if you were an athiest or at least not religiously affiliated you wouldn’t have these problems. You’d still have nutty people trying to cram their beliefs down your throat or hiding behind self righteousness to further their sinister ends, but you wouldn’t have to put up with it. They are hiding behind the nicities of religion. Doing that, pretending to have "god’s will" or your wellbeing at heart, they can wreck lives.
If I were you, I would artfully confide in people around your church or social group about your problem. Don’t be gossipy about it, just act distressed about the F.s presence an tip people off to your side of the story. Emphasize the fact that Mr. F was sexually inappropriate toward you, and indcate that you find him sexually threatening. That way, if they try to tell people lies about you, you will have preemptively discredited them.
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Stop holding onto the judgmental attitude, and forgive them. You won’t find any peace until you release them to the judgment of the Lord.
Romans 12:18-21 reads, "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not give place to wrath; for it is written, ‘vengeance is Mine, I will repay,’ says the Lord. Therefore ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.’ Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good."
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Please consider that this Mrs A could be jealous and resents fact that you have moved on. They are still where you were – back then because, maybe they have not learned from it. It may appear to them that you have left the scene, unscathed, while they are still troubled with this.
People may say they are Christian, go to church every Sunday, bible study, so forth ands so on… They do however, sometimes have other agendas.
We must try to be thankful that we have a forgiving and loving heart, and we have been able to move on, by the grace of God.
Just try to be as nice as you can and keep your distance.
There will always be people who will try to cause trouble and stir the pot – as often and with as many as they ca. They are not well liked in any congregation. But, we all must deal with our share, from time to time.
I know it hurts too. But we must realise just how much ‘they’ are hurting, to torment so many others with this much grief!
Pray for them, smile and tell them you will pray for God to give them peace from their suffering. I don’t think they will bother you anymore…
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